Private Coaching

I offer several different coaching packages tailored to what you most need. I am happy to help you determine what the right fit is for you. Here’s a list of my offerings:

Transformational Couples Package

Polyamory often transforms long-standing relationships. This is especially true if you are new to polyamory, but can happen also if you’ve been together awhile but something new happens that changes the game. I see this both inevitable and an opportunity rather than something to avoid or fear. However, to walk through a transformation together can mean triggering old wounds, feeling stuck in patterns that no longer work for the relationship, and renegotiating how things work between you. If this sounds like something you’re facing, the Transformational Couples package is for you. Together we’ll get clear on your Big Why and your hopes for this relationship, map out what’s getting in the way, and build practices and skills to create new patterns that work better to create more joy, closeness and meaning in your partnership. Includes 12 weekly or biweekly sessions.

Startup Couples Package

Feeling a little lost in your relationship and need a guide to help point you in the right direction? Hitting a rough spot in an otherwise smooth-sailing partnership, and you could use a little extra support? Not sure what kind of help you need yet, but want to dive in and find out? The Startup Couples Package is for you. Together we’ll look at what’s feeling stuck right now and create a plan and tools for how to get unstuck. Includes 6 weekly or biweekly sessions.

Transformational Individual Package

Life is full of moments where we experience massive shifts in how we see the world, which can reverberate through how we live and love. Feeling like something big has changed in you and you’re trying to make sense of it? Longing to transform something that has been holding you back, and now feels like the time to tackle it? Feeling suddenly lost about what’s right for you or how to orient yourself in your relational life? The Transformational Individual Package is for you. Together we’ll map out your hopes and goals and what’s keeping you stuck or struggling, then we’ll work together to help you move or transform those blocks and build skills and practices to help you navigate this shift with confidence and joy.

Startup Individual Package

Have you recently lost trust in yourself? Hit a bump in the road that has rattled your confidence? Facing a new challenge and finding it harder to face than it typically is for you? Needing some space and a guide to help you in a moment of confusion or uncertainty? The Startup Individual Package is for you. Together we’ll figure out what you need to meet this moment with curiosity, creativity and compassion, while creating space to tap into your own inner wisdom. Includes 6 weekly or biweekly sessions.


Relationship Transition Package

Is your relationship facing a significant change, such as a deescalation, change in living situation, or end to the relationship? Are one or both of you one foot out the door? Are you sure the relationship as it stands is not working, but you don’t know how it needs to change? Are you clear that you want to break up, and want to do so in a kind and loving way, but that feels hard and sticky? The Relationship Transition Package is for you. This package is a combination of  individual sessions and group sessions to support you through the transition you’re facing. Together we’ll get clear on your individual and shared goals and make a plan for how to get there, including facing any potential blocks in your path as well as new tools you might need to get you there. The individual sessions are to support each of you where you’re at, and the shared sessions are to facilitate collaboration on where you have a shared goal for navigating the transition. Includes 6 individual sessions and 4 shared sessions. (Note: Libby is not qualified to give legal or financial advice.)

One-off Coaching Consultation

Looking for my take on your situation or wanting someone to hold space in a moment where you’re feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? A on-off session is perfect for that. We can use the time how you would like. We take stock of your situation and what you’re facing, and I can share reflections that invite you into your own wisdom and clarity. I can also offer some ideas about where to turn for more help or what the next right step might be. Or you can just pick my brain about whatever’s on your mind. One session, either 60 minutes or 90 minutes (90 minutes recommended for 2 people.)

Group Packages

I support triads, quads, and more as well - together we’ll create a custom package to address your needs and support your relationship goals.

Schedule a Free 30-Minute Consult

The purpose of this call is to see if we are a good fit for coaching together and to determine what package of services would serve you best. I look forward to speaking with you!

A couple of notes:

If you do not see any available slots, I am full up on introductory sessions. You can sign up to be notified of openings by joining my waitlist here.

If you are interested in coaching around a particular relationship, I highly prefer to work with the people in that relationship together, so consider having both (or more) of you on the intro session.

Our coaching session will be online via Zoom video chat. So when you schedule, please make sure you are choosing a time where you can be in front of a screen with a camera with the Zoom software installed. For safety reasons, I will NOT do an intro session if you are operating a moving vehicle.

As this is a free consult, last-minute cancelations may not be reschedulable.